Sunday, November 30, 2008

Should I Take My Ex Boyfriend Back?

By Maria Tames

Or should I just kill him on the spot? No seriously, a lot of girls ask themselves this question after a breakup.

Of course most girls don't actually want to hurt their ex boyfriend (physically), but they often think about it. Because let's be frank here.. guys can be such idiots!

And if your boyfriend broke up with you, or you broke up with your boyfriend, it doesn't really make a difference.. It is still you who is left wondering if you should take your ex boyfriend back.

You probably know that you have to be on your guard when your boyfriend broke up with you, and then later wants you back.

In a lot of cases, he is just trying to get you to have sex with him again. You know that, right?

It is very probable that you still have some physical attraction to him as well. After all he used to be your boyfriend for a reason, right? This makes it difficult for girls to resist the charms of their ex boyfriend, and even makes them wonder if they should get back together with him.

It's not so easy to give a general advice in these matters. Every single situation is different, and you have to consider the circumstances. Most people would at least suggest to get rid of a guy for good, if they cheated on you.

If your ex boyfriend cheated on you, the chances that he will ever become a trustworthy partner are slim. So if you are considering taking a cheating guy back, then you have to make really sure that he has changed.

If you decide you want to take your ex boyfriend back, it can be wise to read some good manual on how you can change his behavior. Otherwise, your ex boyfriend (and you) are likely to fall back into the same patterns that your relationship used to have. So in other words, you need to know some more about male psychology.

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