Monday, December 1, 2008

Getting the Love of My Ex Girlfriend Back

By Filipina Kisses

Are you looking for effective ways in bringing an ex girlfriend back in your life? There are some ways you can try and could be really effective. At least you did try to get back together and make it work. As the saying goes, if it's meant for you, it will return to you.

Well, a second chance at love is way more sweeter, right? But before you do all these, you have to make sure you still have feelings for your ex and not just because you are just lonely for companionship.

Think about some things first:

1. Reasons - What are the reasons you broke up? Is it because of something you did or is it because of someone else. If it's because of someone else, that is tough and may not be worth fixing over. But if not then make a reason for your ex girlfriend to come back to you. Make your ex girlfriend see that you are worth another try.

2. Attraction - There must still be an attraction between the two of you before this could work. If you know your ex girlfriend is still attracted to you, then you have a good chance of winning your ex girlfriend back. Work on those attraction but in a subtle way.

3. Compatibility - If you were compatible together, then this is good, it means your personality matches and you have many things in common.

4. Method - How do you get an ex girlfriend back? Things that you should never do is to beg and plead for your ex girlfriend to come back. Don't threaten your ex girlfriend like you are going to hurt yourself. These are a big no-no. So you have to be careful on your methods on how to get your ex girlfriend back. Play up the good parts, your attraction, compatibility, what you know could be the reason of the break up, change and improve on that.

5. Time - This could be difficult. But give your ex girlfriend some time. Don't call or text your ex a hundred times a day just because you are lonely. This could irritate your ex girlfriend. Don't entirely disappear also. Be subtly visible and let your ex be aware that you are still there. Some people need time to think.

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