Monday, December 1, 2008

How You Can Flirt With a Man Anywhere

By Sheryl Ingwer

Flirting is just a way of making a person know that you are interested in them. The men are the ones who like flirting a lot; the ladies also flirt but trust them to do it discreetly. If you were to be very observant you might even conclude that the ladies flirt more than than men! If you are going to flirt you had better arm yourself with some flirting techniques. They are very important.

You will certainly succeed in your attempts to flirt by following a few of these tried and successful techniques.One flirting technique that works well with men is to ask for help.This boosts their confidence level and makes them feel more at ease with you, in turn they will become more conversational , which is to your advantage.And always remember use his name for a more personal touch.

In this respect, you'll be letting the person know that you were interested enough to make it a point to remember their name. Conversing with someone you genuinely like, and having them refer to you by name is a really great feeling. Another way to convey your interest is to mimic some, though not necessarily all, of their body language. Give these flirting skills a try.

Another method used in flirting is to get a persons attention by telling them you have a secret. Once they are interested in what you have to say ,lean towards them and whisper something silly or complimentary.This will let them know you are interested in them and not just being friendly.

Make sure what you whisper is something inviting but not overly sexual. If your words are crude and offensive you may undo everything you are trying to accomplish, which is to lure him in. What may happen is that he may turn and run instead. So if your tendency is to use words from the more colorful categories, you may want to skip this method and try something else.

Another great flirting technique is to smile. Smiling is one of our greatest possessions, it can light up the room when all seems dark and gloomy. So go out and give it a try, and start smiling at people!

At the end of the day you will not only feel good about yourself but you would have also made someone's day a very happy one. When you get a chance smile to the person you are flirting with. Smile often means that you are inviting a person to come over and talk to you and if you want the person to come to where you are, smile. Give him your best smile and count the number of seconds he took to come over to your table.

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